How to Mix and Match Bridesmaids Dresses

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The days of traditional matchy-matchy bridesmaids are fading away, and the mix and match trend has claimed the spotlight. Brides most commonly opt for this trend so their bridesmaids can each choose a dress they’ll feel most comfortable rocking, so they can each feel uniquely beautiful. When designing new styles here at Birdy Grey, we keep easy mixing and matching in mind. It’s safe to say that our bridesmaid dress styles are truly made, by design, to be mixed and matched seamlessly! But we know there’s a few different ways to go about it, depending on your wedding vision. Here’s our tips on how to create the perfect mix and match bridesmaid dress look for your own bridal party--  with a mix of colors and styles, a mix of styles in the same color, and with our convertible gowns


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Step 1: Decide on color tones.

The first step of mismatched bridesmaids is to decide on the general color tones. Do you want to stick with cooler shades like blues and grays, or warmer shades like pinks and mauves? Do you want light pastels, or deeper rich tones? Maybe even a mix of both? You’ll most likely want to take cues from your overall wedding color scheme here, to ensure the girls look cohesive with decor, details, and overall wedding vibe.

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 Step 2: Create an ombre effect.

Within your chosen color tones, you’ll want to create a dreamy, gradient ombre effect. Select an even distribution of lighter, darker, and middle toned colors. We typically recommend choosing 2-4 colors (depending on how many bridesmaids you have), to keep things looking orderly and not too cluttered. Just make sure there’s a balance of shades, so no bridesmaid is the odd one out.

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Step 3: Incorporate a variety of necklines.

We always recommend that the bride assign each bridesmaid a color to wear, and then allowing them to pick a style they love within that. To add dimension and visual interest to the bridal party lineup, include a variety of dress necklines. This can be achieved if the girls wearing a mix of different dress styles, or if they’re styling one of our convertible bridesmaid dresses in different necklines. Alternate between strapless, halter, v-neck, etc. for the best effect. 

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Step 4: Bring everyone’s look together with accessories.

Finally, take all these unique styles and turn them into a proper, photo-ready bridal party! Have the girls wear similar shoes, jewelry, hairstyle-- or at the very least, just hold the same bouquet. This will help to unify the group, and ensure everyone’s look is perfectly coordinated.

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Not a fan of the multi-toned look? No worries! To achieve a more traditional monochrome bridesmaid look, simply assign the girls one color, and they’ll pick the dress silhouette. BTW... Our bridal parties most often mix and match this way! For the best effect, make sure they choose a variety of dress necklines and fabrics. This way there’s a balance of different styles and nobody will look like the odd one out. Just a heads up, there can be some natural color variance between fabrics, as each takes dye differently. This adds gorgeous dimension, but if you prefer that all gowns are uniform in color, have the girls stick within one fabric. 

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If you want to get the look without all the fuss, make bridesmaid mixing and matching a total breeze with one of our convertible styles! Keep it simple. Just let the girls know which convertible dress they should order, and allow them to style their neckline however they feel is most comfortable and flattering. This is perfect for any bride feeling overwhelmed by all the details of wedding planning, but still wanting a unique bridesmaid lineup on the big day. Have the girls wear our Christina, Chicky, or Grace gown, and they’ll style the straps. Easy peasy, and so chic.

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